What pet owners aren’t telling you about pet adoption

Woman beside her dog making a 'shush' gesture, sharing a quiet moment that hints at the hidden truths of pet adoption.

Does your heart melt seeing those adorable Labs, cute Golden Retrievers, fluffy Pomeranians, out on the streets with their happy humans? Or have you ever fallen for the mesmerizing eyes of Turkish cats or our very own playful Indian kittens– are you in love? Wouldn’t it be lovely to bring one of these little angels home? Pet adoption in mind?

Well, indeed! Studies have proved that interacting with pets is linked to lower levels of stress and anxiety. In fact, in a stressful city life, interactions with furry companions can provide a source of comfort as it increases oxytocin, a hormone associated with feelings of well-being and bonding.

But before that, as a fellow caregiver to 4 cats and a dog, let me spill some beans about what goes behind the scenes, to raise these seemingly perfect fur babies. Let’s know what no pet parent wants to tell you about owning the furry companions. If you’re thinking about pet adoption or are a new pet parent, this blog can help you get ready for what to expect.

1. Don’t fall for that innocent look

Know that those adorable puppy dog eyes or the kitten’s gentle purrs are a sure sign that they’re working their magic on you, but don’t get fooled! This is, in all likelihood, the initial calm before the storm. For there is something called the honeymoon phase!

Post-pet adoption, new pets often go through an adjustment phase lasting from days to months. Here, they’re unsure and check out the new surroundings and hold back on showing their true personality. But honeymoons don’t last forever, so don’t be surprised when it ends. Now that they feel at home, houseplants can suddenly turn to be a tempting snack, and their pots could be the perfect beddings for your curious cats. You thought you brought a quiet sleeper? Prepare for pre-dawn symphonies of your beloved pup. Welcome to pet parenthood!

Now, here’s the twist: these “issues” are actually positive signs! They mean your furry friend is starting to feel comfortable enough to express themselves. It’s time to build on that trust and strengthen your bond.

2. Be prepared for some destruction

And before you know, your pet’s curiosity and playful instincts could take form of a demolition project at home. Cats love investigating countertops, and they might find your most prized possessions, like spatulas or dish towels, to be fascinating toys. Don’t get shocked if you find the entire roll of toilet paper torn into bits. They might unwind the entire roll just for the joy of it. Coffee tables become battlegrounds for playful pups who might snatch the TV remote or your phone and make a daring escape with it. Furniture, shoes, anyone? Puppies particularly find them delicious. This could be your ultimate test of patience.

Well, these are all normal behaviours for cats and dogs, especially in the early stages of pet adoption. With a little patience, and positive reinforcement, you can help them channel their energy into more positive outlets, away from any mischief. Puppy training at a young age, by a pet trainer can help establish some ground rules for your furry friend.

3. Nature Calls (Sometimes Unexpectedly)

Expect little accidents while potty training, especially in the beginning. It’s not all poop and puke, but there’s definitely some poop and puke. Stay positive, clean up calmly, and remember, accidents are a normal part of learning. Not only pups, even well-trained pets might have occasional accident…and coming from a pet owner, it’s not always going to be hard poop that you can pick and dump. Potty, as you know, can be of different texture…let’s escape the detailing here!

Early training with an expert trainer, makes the learning process easy on you as well as the pet. The sooner the better!

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4. It’s Not Always Sunshine and Rainbows

There would be days when fatigue might cloud your judgement. Pet hair could seem like an eternal battle, sticking to clothes, furniture, and filling the vacuum cleaner. Or constant barking or meowing could feel disruptive and annoying, especially at night or when trying to relax. Your pet’s constant demand for attention might feel overwhelming when you’re looking for some personal space.

Know that it is absolutely alright to seek help from your near and dear ones, from time to time. A reliable support crew (think pet sitters, walkers, and friends!) could provide a much-needed break, when you need it the most, without hampering the well-being of your pet. It allows you to recharge and come back to your pet, feeling refreshed and more patient.

5. Unconditional Love, Endless Entertainment, it’s all worth it

Yes, there will be chaos, hair on your clothes, the occasional chewed shoe, and days when your patience feels tested. But at the end of it all, the love and companionship a pet brings are truly unmatched.

The way they greet you at the door, like you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to them… The goofy zoomies that make you laugh even on tough days… The contented purrs as they curl up beside you, or the warm weight of a pup sleeping peacefully in your lap… These aren’t just sweet moments — they’re healing ones.

And here’s the beautiful truth: You grow with them. You become more patient, more compassionate, and often, a better version of yourself.

And yes, you’ll become THAT person! The one who celebrates their every tiny milestones, talks to their pet like a best friend, and proudly shows photos to anyone who will look.

So, embrace your inner crazy cat/dog person and find your pawsome match – it’s a badge of honor!


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Paromi Roy is a professional dog trainer with a passion for helping pet parents build harmonious relationships with their furry companions. With years of experience and a deep understanding of canine behaviour, she specialises in guiding first-time pet owners through the challenges of raising and training their dogs. When she’s not training dogs, she enjoys sharing her expertise through writing and community workshops.

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